by Jennie Ruby
This is a memory aid for this week’s conundrum: "if I was" versus "if I were." Either of these can be correct, depending on the situation. The difference between these two expressions is that one is talking about reality, and the other is supposing something that is impossible or totally not true. The grammatical terms for these two modes of speaking are indicative (for indicating facts) and subjunctive (for supposing the impossible, or supposing something that is known to be untrue).
Here’s how the two modes work.
When you use indicative statements, you are talking about facts or asking about facts, like this:
Stating a fact: I was home yesterday morning.
Asking about a fact: Was I there when you called?
In both of these sentences, you use the verb was with I. They are both singular. When you are supposing the impossible, however, you use a plural verb, were, with the singular I, like this:
If I were a rich man, I’d see my wife, my Rosie, looking like a rich man’s wife.
This, of course, is a quote from a song in the musical Fiddler on the Roof. You cannot always trust popular songs to use correct grammar, but this one does. In this scenario, the man singing this song is not rich. He is never going to be rich. He is supposing the impossible. Here are some other examples of supposing the impossible or supposing something that is known to be untrue:
If I were you, I’d order the steak. (I am supposing the impossible–I can’t be you.)
If I were home today, I’d take a nap after lunch. (I am supposing something that is known to be untrue–I am not home today, I know for a fact that I am not, and to suppose it is to suppose something that is not true.)
All this gets a little more difficult when you are supposing something and you don’t know or remember whether it was true or not. In this case, you use the indicative, because the thing you are supposing might have been true, you just can’t remember:
If I was home when you called yesterday, I did not hear the phone.
This statement is not impossible or known to be untrue. Instead, it might well have been true–I might have been home when you called.
So when you are deciding between if I was and if I were, think of the song from Fiddler on the Roof, and if you are supposing the impossible or something you know is untrue, use if I were like the song. Otherwise use if I was.
About the Author: Jennie Ruby is a veteran IconLogic trainer and author with titles such as "Essentials of Access 2000" and "Editing with MS Word 2003 and Adobe Acrobat 7" to her credit. Jennie specializes in electronic editing. At the American Psychological Association, she was manager of electronic publishing and manager of technical editing and journal production. Jennie has an M.A. from George Washington University and is a Certified Technical Trainer (Chauncey Group). She is a publishing professional with 20 years of experience in writing, editing and desktop publishing.
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A real good explanation.
Thanks Jennie.
A real good explanation.
Thanks Jennie.
A real good explanation.
Thanks Jennie.
A really good explanation, rather.
A really good explanation, rather.
A really good explanation, rather.
Thank you. Clear and simple. If i learned this way in school I could of been a contender…instead of a bum…which is what I am (“On The Waterfront”) I’m guessing it should be, “I could HAVE been a contender but…”
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Thank you. Clear and simple. If i learned this way in school I could of been a contender…instead of a bum…which is what I am (“On The Waterfront”) I’m guessing it should be, “I could HAVE been a contender but…”
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Thank you. Clear and simple. If i learned this way in school I could of been a contender…instead of a bum…which is what I am (“On The Waterfront”) I’m guessing it should be, “I could HAVE been a contender but…”
http://www.rebelyogi.com
Being from the Netherlands, it’s still confusing to me in the following case;
‘What if I was like you are’ or ‘What if I were like you are’.
WAS sounds better to me -as a song lyric- then WERE.
What is the right form in this case?
Thank you.
Being from the Netherlands, it’s still confusing to me in the following case;
‘What if I was like you are’ or ‘What if I were like you are’.
WAS sounds better to me -as a song lyric- then WERE.
What is the right form in this case?
Thank you.
Being from the Netherlands, it’s still confusing to me in the following case;
‘What if I was like you are’ or ‘What if I were like you are’.
WAS sounds better to me -as a song lyric- then WERE.
What is the right form in this case?
Thank you.
I like the explanations. Such a tough subject to understand.
Rene – I think with song lyrics you can get away with anything! 🙂
I like the explanations. Such a tough subject to understand.
Rene – I think with song lyrics you can get away with anything! 🙂
I like the explanations. Such a tough subject to understand.
Rene – I think with song lyrics you can get away with anything! 🙂
Good explanation, but don’t you also use “were” instead of “was” with “I” when the situation is not an impossibility but is conditional, such as in the sentence, “If I were to go with you, I would need to be home by ten”?
Good explanation, but don’t you also use “were” instead of “was” with “I” when the situation is not an impossibility but is conditional, such as in the sentence, “If I were to go with you, I would need to be home by ten”?
Good explanation, but don’t you also use “were” instead of “was” with “I” when the situation is not an impossibility but is conditional, such as in the sentence, “If I were to go with you, I would need to be home by ten”?
thank u for the explanation i needed it for my english exam!!!
thank u for the explanation i needed it for my english exam!!!
thank u for the explanation i needed it for my english exam!!!
One question:
“If I was famous I would be very childish.”
“If i was rich I would buy a nice car.”
let´s take that example, is it really impossible for me to be famous, or rich?
what if it isn´t? I mean, now the debate should be about what is possible
or impossible, I like your explanation but it leaves out this question
Considering nothing is impossible until proven so I guess If i was should be
taken as the correct form of it.
Please, I´d like to know more about this… In Canada we do NOT use “If I were”…
One question:
“If I was famous I would be very childish.”
“If i was rich I would buy a nice car.”
let´s take that example, is it really impossible for me to be famous, or rich?
what if it isn´t? I mean, now the debate should be about what is possible
or impossible, I like your explanation but it leaves out this question
Considering nothing is impossible until proven so I guess If i was should be
taken as the correct form of it.
Please, I´d like to know more about this… In Canada we do NOT use “If I were”…
One question:
“If I was famous I would be very childish.”
“If i was rich I would buy a nice car.”
let´s take that example, is it really impossible for me to be famous, or rich?
what if it isn´t? I mean, now the debate should be about what is possible
or impossible, I like your explanation but it leaves out this question
Considering nothing is impossible until proven so I guess If i was should be
taken as the correct form of it.
Please, I´d like to know more about this… In Canada we do NOT use “If I were”…
Thank you for the explanation. I know we were (?) supposed to learn our grammar in grades school but I do not remember them. Even though I am trying to refresh them now, most explanations were so technical and used the language I was trying to get explained to explain to me. Thanks again.
Thank you for the explanation. I know we were (?) supposed to learn our grammar in grades school but I do not remember them. Even though I am trying to refresh them now, most explanations were so technical and used the language I was trying to get explained to explain to me. Thanks again.
Thank you for the explanation. I know we were (?) supposed to learn our grammar in grades school but I do not remember them. Even though I am trying to refresh them now, most explanations were so technical and used the language I was trying to get explained to explain to me. Thanks again.
I never knew about the subjunctive mood until I learned Spanish…
In Spanish, the automatic translation/rule is “Si yo fuera…” = “If I were…”
This entry is only explaining the subjunctive mood with the infinitive “to be” in the past [was/were]
Maybe you should talk about the general rule for employing subjunctives with other verbs as well…
I never knew about the subjunctive mood until I learned Spanish…
In Spanish, the automatic translation/rule is “Si yo fuera…” = “If I were…”
This entry is only explaining the subjunctive mood with the infinitive “to be” in the past [was/were]
Maybe you should talk about the general rule for employing subjunctives with other verbs as well…
I never knew about the subjunctive mood until I learned Spanish…
In Spanish, the automatic translation/rule is “Si yo fuera…” = “If I were…”
This entry is only explaining the subjunctive mood with the infinitive “to be” in the past [was/were]
Maybe you should talk about the general rule for employing subjunctives with other verbs as well…
Thank you very much. I never knew the proper way to use “if i were” and “if i was.” I was always confused. Now, it totally makes sense!!!!
Thank you very much. I never knew the proper way to use “if i were” and “if i was.” I was always confused. Now, it totally makes sense!!!!
Thank you very much. I never knew the proper way to use “if i were” and “if i was.” I was always confused. Now, it totally makes sense!!!!
Does this only apply to situation where “I” is the subject? For example: If the technology was/were simple, everyone would use it. This entire article, though easy to understand, only gives examples using “If I were…” Thanks.
Does this only apply to situation where “I” is the subject? For example: If the technology was/were simple, everyone would use it. This entire article, though easy to understand, only gives examples using “If I were…” Thanks.
Does this only apply to situation where “I” is the subject? For example: If the technology was/were simple, everyone would use it. This entire article, though easy to understand, only gives examples using “If I were…” Thanks.
How about this tricky blighter:
would it be correct to rephrase
“If there were a better school nearby, would you think we should move here?”
as
“If there were a better school nearby, should we move here?”
How about this tricky blighter:
would it be correct to rephrase
“If there were a better school nearby, would you think we should move here?”
as
“If there were a better school nearby, should we move here?”
How about this tricky blighter:
would it be correct to rephrase
“If there were a better school nearby, would you think we should move here?”
as
“If there were a better school nearby, should we move here?”
You write:
“When you are supposing the impossible, however, you use a plural verb, were, with the singular I, like this:
If I were a rich man, I’d see my wife, my Rosie, looking like a rich man’s wife.”
In this usage, “were” is not plural; it is the singular past tense of the subjunctive: I were, you were, he/she/it were. So your statement quoted above is wrong: both “I” and “were” are singular. See Sir Ernest Gowers: ABC of Plain Words, HMSO, London 1951
As for Utternonsense’s post (March 09, 2010), both sentences are correct; they have differdent meanings , of course.
You write:
“When you are supposing the impossible, however, you use a plural verb, were, with the singular I, like this:
If I were a rich man, I’d see my wife, my Rosie, looking like a rich man’s wife.”
In this usage, “were” is not plural; it is the singular past tense of the subjunctive: I were, you were, he/she/it were. So your statement quoted above is wrong: both “I” and “were” are singular. See Sir Ernest Gowers: ABC of Plain Words, HMSO, London 1951
As for Utternonsense’s post (March 09, 2010), both sentences are correct; they have differdent meanings , of course.
You write:
“When you are supposing the impossible, however, you use a plural verb, were, with the singular I, like this:
If I were a rich man, I’d see my wife, my Rosie, looking like a rich man’s wife.”
In this usage, “were” is not plural; it is the singular past tense of the subjunctive: I were, you were, he/she/it were. So your statement quoted above is wrong: both “I” and “were” are singular. See Sir Ernest Gowers: ABC of Plain Words, HMSO, London 1951
As for Utternonsense’s post (March 09, 2010), both sentences are correct; they have differdent meanings , of course.
I really liked this explanation. 🙂
I really liked this explanation. 🙂
I really liked this explanation. 🙂
This helped me help a student with a very specific question about this. Tevye’s wife was Golda, by the way.
This helped me help a student with a very specific question about this. Tevye’s wife was Golda, by the way.
This helped me help a student with a very specific question about this. Tevye’s wife was Golda, by the way.
If I were… sounds pretentious and archaic to my modern ears. English is always changing to fit the times. Thank you for your article.
If I were… sounds pretentious and archaic to my modern ears. English is always changing to fit the times. Thank you for your article.